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Jill (Jamie) Ponto-Miller
November 22, 1967 ~ July 12, 2017 (age 49) 49 Years Old Light a Candle
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A candle was lit by Steph
on November 4, 2023 3:13 PM
A candle was lit by Kelly Shears
on October 22, 2022 5:37 PM
A candle was lit by Shana Broderick
on September 15, 2022 7:13 PM
A candle was lit by Chel Boettcher
on June 6, 2021 1:46 AM
Message from Chel Boettcher
June 6, 2021 1:45 AM
Dearest Jamie, Many years ago you were my dearest wife. We soured on each other, divorced and lost contact and now I am finding out you died almost four years ago. You were a very kind, sweet and generous woman and at our best we were great together. I know Joel's loss was so very devastating. I believe you are with him now and, yes, with Winkie too, that little rascal. You are one of the great lights in my life and oh so wickedly cantankerous! Miss you always. Love, your former husband, Chel
Message from Ell
July 13, 2020 6:44 AM
Oh jamers, I was having dreams last night. You kept popping into them. So I thought I would look you up. And found this. Jamers I miss you. I am sorry I wasn’t around the last couple of years but that is how we were. I learned so many things from you. I will love and miss you everyday of my life. One thing I do know is you are not in pain anymore and you are with Joel and Winkie now
Message from Kelly Shears
August 20, 2022 10:41 AM
I just woke up from a very vivid dream that she was alive - healthy and happy. I miss you Jamo - you were very special to me, your family and friends. You'll be forever in my heart.
A candle was lit by Lliwen from Wales and allpoetry
on August 11, 2018 11:19 AM
A candle was lit by Kelly Shears
on November 13, 2017 7:27 PM
Message from M Teresa Clayton
November 2, 2017 5:06 PM
I was a friend of Jill's. We collaborated and I read several of her works for her. We talked often about her battles with emotional pain and I gave her my number and told her to call any time day or night. I don't know what happened.
I am writing a book and the poem we collaborated on will be included as well as a story inspired by that poem.
I'd like to give an afterword dedicated to Jill and her life. I'd appreciate a call from a family member. I'd also like to discuss putting her works into a book for all of you to have a copy of - It will be in a family members name and I will not put my name on the book - only that a living angel has gifted the world with her works.
Please call me at 636 294-9440 Teresa Clayton (M. Teresa Clayton)
I am writing a book and the poem we collaborated on will be included as well as a story inspired by that poem.
I'd like to give an afterword dedicated to Jill and her life. I'd appreciate a call from a family member. I'd also like to discuss putting her works into a book for all of you to have a copy of - It will be in a family members name and I will not put my name on the book - only that a living angel has gifted the world with her works.
Please call me at 636 294-9440 Teresa Clayton (M. Teresa Clayton)
A candle was lit by Dee
on August 1, 2017 10:53 AM
A candle was lit by Soulo...(Ann Gilchrist), with love. X
on July 31, 2017 5:30 AM
Message from Luyu--Wild Dove
July 30, 2017 7:47 PM
Diablo, you will be deeply missed, we shared poetry and emotions...their is where our spirits connected in words that came from inside our souls. You will be missed. Sending love to your entire family, friends and poetic family.
Message from Jade Mueller
August 12, 2017 8:11 PM
Thank you Luyu,
It comforts me to know her size among her friends and how she was appreciated.
It comforts me to know her size among her friends and how she was appreciated.
A candle was lit by Luyu
on July 30, 2017 7:42 PM
Message from James Nichols
July 29, 2017 1:13 AM
Jill and I communicated fairly regularly, though she was often upset with me for being aloof and moody. She has a relative who is a physician and knows the personality that goes with and ER doc so we were at peace before her untimely passing.
Jill was such a brilliant soul. Her writings clearly reflected turmoil and pain, but her eloquence and talent made even this heaviness and joy to read and to marvel at the structure and complexities that were here hallmark. I never spoke to her nor met her, but I feel like a part of my soul has been ripped away quite unwillingly and permanently. I hope there is some cosmic rationale for all this and someday we all gain insight we can't fathom here. If not, then at least let my remnants remain suspended somewhere with Jill for an eternity.
Jill was such a brilliant soul. Her writings clearly reflected turmoil and pain, but her eloquence and talent made even this heaviness and joy to read and to marvel at the structure and complexities that were here hallmark. I never spoke to her nor met her, but I feel like a part of my soul has been ripped away quite unwillingly and permanently. I hope there is some cosmic rationale for all this and someday we all gain insight we can't fathom here. If not, then at least let my remnants remain suspended somewhere with Jill for an eternity.
Message from Jade Mueller
August 12, 2017 8:17 PM
Thank you James. You evidently know her essence and her giftedness. Relationships all seemed to have their peaks and valleys, so even if it were to happen that she left some in a valley, pursuit would eventually reopen the door.
A candle was lit by Oscar Cervera
on July 24, 2017 8:47 PM
Message from Allpoetry.com
July 24, 2017 2:42 PM
Though i have never met Jill in person, i felt that i got to know her briefly through allpoetry. The world is a little more sad, a little less bright, with her passing. My condolences to the family and friends during this sad time.
A candle was lit by Danielle Fullbright -AP user
on July 24, 2017 2:41 PM
Message from Sheila Bush
July 24, 2017 12:28 PM
Jill (Jamie) had an incredible mind--she was clever...brilliant, really. And she was real. One of the things I loved about her is that no matter how many years passed between conversations, we could delve right back into it. No small talk or niceties necessary. She laid it all out for you--her insights, her pain, her hopes--and she often did it with so much humor. She could be hilarious, that one. I can still hear her laughter--booming, throaty, mischievous laughter!
We traded poetry. She, the much more prolific writer. We traded war stories. We shared loss. She was a good listener--she genuinely wanted to know what you were up to, how you were doing, did you need anything, what were your thoughts about this? When I contracted Lyme disease, I struggled with many aspects of it, particularly how it's being addressed by doctors, the CDC and the IDSA. In describing to most of my friends what I had learned, the reaction was often one of doubt. But when I described what I'd learned to Jill (Jamie), she replied with three beautiful words, "I believe you." She took it even further and read about Lyme disease on her own. It meant so much to me.
She and our now deceased friend Damian were once upon a time incredibly close ("James and Dames")--they were almost inseparable. After his death, she copied many of his letters and sent them to me. She knew how much I loved him and wanted to share this piece of him with me. She was generous.
I can't help but recall a couple of the times that she and Damian got me in trouble with their shenanigans (I can hear her howl at the use of that word "shenanigans." In fact, I can imagine her listing a bunch of descriptors now: antics, mischief, up to no good, high jinks, waywardness, funny business...). When she took "Diablo" as part of her Facebook name, I immediately laughed--there was that clever humor again! I also remember dancing with her and Damian at Pappagallos back in the day. I remember it all with warmth and longing.
I'm so very saddened about Jill's (Jamie's) death. Just a few days before I heard the news, she suddenly popped into my head. "I wonder what she's up to," I thought. "I should check in--it's been too long." Another "If only," though I know she, of all people, would tell me not to do that.
Jill (Jamie) Ponto-Miller, I hope you are at peace at long last, free of pain and with your brother Joel and our beloved Damian. The world is richer because of your poetry and openness, and I am richer for having known you. In my imagination, you, your brother and Damian are dancing above, laughing and happy.
My condolences to your family and friends, and my love to you.
We traded poetry. She, the much more prolific writer. We traded war stories. We shared loss. She was a good listener--she genuinely wanted to know what you were up to, how you were doing, did you need anything, what were your thoughts about this? When I contracted Lyme disease, I struggled with many aspects of it, particularly how it's being addressed by doctors, the CDC and the IDSA. In describing to most of my friends what I had learned, the reaction was often one of doubt. But when I described what I'd learned to Jill (Jamie), she replied with three beautiful words, "I believe you." She took it even further and read about Lyme disease on her own. It meant so much to me.
She and our now deceased friend Damian were once upon a time incredibly close ("James and Dames")--they were almost inseparable. After his death, she copied many of his letters and sent them to me. She knew how much I loved him and wanted to share this piece of him with me. She was generous.
I can't help but recall a couple of the times that she and Damian got me in trouble with their shenanigans (I can hear her howl at the use of that word "shenanigans." In fact, I can imagine her listing a bunch of descriptors now: antics, mischief, up to no good, high jinks, waywardness, funny business...). When she took "Diablo" as part of her Facebook name, I immediately laughed--there was that clever humor again! I also remember dancing with her and Damian at Pappagallos back in the day. I remember it all with warmth and longing.
I'm so very saddened about Jill's (Jamie's) death. Just a few days before I heard the news, she suddenly popped into my head. "I wonder what she's up to," I thought. "I should check in--it's been too long." Another "If only," though I know she, of all people, would tell me not to do that.
Jill (Jamie) Ponto-Miller, I hope you are at peace at long last, free of pain and with your brother Joel and our beloved Damian. The world is richer because of your poetry and openness, and I am richer for having known you. In my imagination, you, your brother and Damian are dancing above, laughing and happy.
My condolences to your family and friends, and my love to you.
A candle was lit by Min Kennedy
on July 24, 2017 9:53 AM
A candle was lit by Susan Adlam
on July 24, 2017 9:51 AM
Message from Ireland
July 24, 2017 6:31 AM
You are missed by your friends at All Poetry. Rest in Peace.
A candle was lit by James Anthony, Ireland (All Poetry)
on July 24, 2017 6:29 AM
Message from England
July 24, 2017 2:20 AM
Jill, thank you and I love you too. Your poetry is the part of your soul you chose to leave here, may others find comfort in the presence of your words. We will meet again my friend, you can be sure of that. Sleep well beautiful lady.
My deepest condolences to those who have loved and lost this lovely lady.
La-La xxx
My deepest condolences to those who have loved and lost this lovely lady.
La-La xxx
A candle was lit by Laura Lamarca
on July 24, 2017 2:13 AM
A Pedestal Arrangement was sent on July 23, 2017
Dear Jade and Jamies Family: My heartfelt condolences go out to you, Hava Mendelberg
A candle was lit by Samantha Hotz (skhotz201 from allpoetry)
on July 23, 2017 2:35 PM
Message from Andrew lawson
July 23, 2017 1:17 PM
I would like to say how sorry I am to the loved ones and friends of Jill
Diablo to me and most of us poets on Allpoetry
I entered some of Diablo's contests
she was a stickler for grammar
grammar on a writing site?
outrageous
ha
I got the Grammarly app after that
and I won one of her contests
she entered some of my contests
and her work stood out
it was raw and reflective
she delved into the light and dark
many writers can't do this
it takes a poet soldier
may she be reunited with her young brother
whom she missed dearly
Diablo to me and most of us poets on Allpoetry
I entered some of Diablo's contests
she was a stickler for grammar
grammar on a writing site?
outrageous
ha
I got the Grammarly app after that
and I won one of her contests
she entered some of my contests
and her work stood out
it was raw and reflective
she delved into the light and dark
many writers can't do this
it takes a poet soldier
may she be reunited with her young brother
whom she missed dearly
A candle was lit by Andrew lawson
on July 23, 2017 1:10 PM
A candle was lit by dblon (Allpoetry)
on July 22, 2017 10:19 PM
Message from Josh Zepnick
July 22, 2017 9:14 PM
I love this photo here and will always remember Jamie with that smile and full of life. I wish we could have done more to help ease her pain in this world...rest in Peace my friend!
A candle was lit by Josh Zepnick
on July 22, 2017 9:12 PM
A candle was lit by Risa J Hoffman
on July 22, 2017 5:54 PM
A Monet's Garden Table Basket was sent by Keith and Marcy (Kitty) Clark on July 22, 2017
Message from Jonathan (J.T.) Topazian
July 22, 2017 2:36 PM
RIP Dearest Jill. You were talented, genuine, authentic, kind, caring, and magical. Your poetry rises to the level of art and you live on with your words. Thank you so much for being the biggest supporter of my own poetry. I'll never forget you and will see you again in heaven when my own life turns to dreams. Love you forevermore, J.T.
A candle was lit by Jonathan (J.T.) Topazian
on July 22, 2017 2:20 PM
A candle was lit by Allison Bethune RKHS c/o 86 classmate
on July 22, 2017 12:22 PM
A candle was lit by Andi
on July 22, 2017 11:31 AM
Message from Andi Horowitz
July 22, 2017 11:29 AM
God will not look you over for medals, degrees or diplomas, but for scars.
Elbert Hubbard
I hear your voice. I remember your laughter. I am better for having known you!
Elbert Hubbard
I hear your voice. I remember your laughter. I am better for having known you!
Message from Poetic T All Poetry
July 22, 2017 3:03 AM
My friend you shall be missed woeful is my heart that you are gone. ill miss our chats "Life is but flickers of time if we burn bright let it be for the right reasons before we go out.
A candle was lit by Poetic T All poetry
on July 22, 2017 2:46 AM
A candle was lit by Elegia from AllPoetry.com
on July 22, 2017 12:59 AM
A candle was lit by Liza Wohlberg
on July 21, 2017 11:00 PM
Message from Texas
July 21, 2017 8:36 PM
I know Jill as a poet - a brilliant one! Her great talent and insight will be greatly missed! My condolences to her family and close friends. She has gone way too soon.
Ann
Ann
A candle was lit by Ann Coberley
on July 21, 2017 8:33 PM
A candle was lit by Marcy (Kitty)
on July 21, 2017 7:24 PM
Message from Marcy Clark (Kitty)
July 21, 2017 7:23 PM
there is a new star in heaven- goodnight my dear friend- I see your sparkle each night I talk to my boys...to your family and friends my deepest sympathy- your girl was a beloved part of AP Poetry and a treasured friend and mentor and inspiration to me-she will be deeply missed! Love, Kitty
A candle was lit by Shannon McNally
on July 21, 2017 6:34 PM
A candle was lit by Mary (Green) Mahaley RKHS C/O 86
on July 21, 2017 5:58 PM
Message from Cheryl Wilcox
July 21, 2017 4:53 PM
I would like my deepest sympathy to Jill's family. I will always remember her smile and the friendship we shared on All Poetry. I am thankful that our paths have crossed. I am a better, richer person for having known her.
Cheryl Wilcox
Cheryl Wilcox
A candle was lit by Cheryl Wilcox
on July 21, 2017 4:45 PM
Message from Jessica Bacalzo
July 21, 2017 4:43 PM
Jamie had a special light and way with her poetry and prose. She was so smart, so talented and so beautiful. I will always remember the antics she and another of our dear friends who passed to soon, Damien, got up to! I hope that she has found the peace she so desperately sought in life and that she is reunited with Damien, once again laughing and being the sprites they were. Love to her family.
A candle was lit by Jessica Bacalzo
on July 21, 2017 4:38 PM
A candle was lit by James May
on July 21, 2017 4:35 PM
A candle was lit by Erin Fatica
on July 21, 2017 2:05 PM
A candle was lit by Sarah Fenske, fellow volunteer at Urban Cat Coalition
on July 21, 2017 11:55 AM
A candle was lit by Annette G.
on July 21, 2017 10:17 AM
A candle was lit by Neal Patrick
on July 21, 2017 4:48 AM
A candle was lit by Kim Cameron, RKHS Class of '85
on July 20, 2017 9:21 PM
A candle was lit by Amy Krymkowski (sending this on behalf of King c/o 1986)
on July 20, 2017 7:51 PM
Message from Heather Asiyanbi (Reinheimer) RKHS c/o 86
July 20, 2017 7:46 PM
I'm so very sorry. I remember Jill (Jamie) as a beautiful girl who had a lot of style and a really good laugh. I pray for peace and healing for her and for her family.
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